And Ryan? He kept casting Ed wary sideways glances for weeks afterward, making sure his message had really sunk in.

Now, 13 years later, I’m happy to report that I’m living a good life with Ed.

We have two beautiful kids, and he’s never forgotten the lesson my brother taught him that day. He knows there’s someone watching out for me. Someone who won’t hesitate to step in if I’m ever disrespected again.

I’m sharing this story today because it’s Ryan’s birthday.

I want the world to know how lucky I am to have a brother who loves me enough to defend me, even when it means making a scene at my own wedding.

Some heroes wear capes, but mine wears a suit and makes sure nobody ever hurts his little sister.